“ The long-term accommodation that protects marriage and other such relationships isâ€¦ forgetfulness.”
-Alice Walker, You Can’t Keep a Good Woman Down (1981)
“Forgetfulness” goes beyond forgiveness. First you forgive, then you forget. This is present-moment awareness in action! The past is history – it’s gone, and it can certainly be forgotten. As we grow and change, as our relationships grow and change, forgetfulness can be a welcome accommodation!