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miserable in missouri
My husband and I have been together for 8 years and married for 3. My husband is talking to his sister about cheating on me and leaving me. She wants him to move to her.He has pulled away from me he wont talk to me and I feel alone and like I am begging for love . When I tell him what I need he doesn’t want to give it to me when I need it. If I am sad he never acts like he cares anymore. He only gives me sex when he wanst it not when I want it or need it. What can I do to save my marriage , get my husband to show me attention, and begin to be able to talk to my husband and really have him understand and want to be there for me emotionally and sexually. PLEASE HELP ME!
This is an awful situation. You definitely need marriage counseling. And you both need to be honest with each other and lay all the cards on the table. The thing is, you can’t change anyone – but your husband may be depressed, and the way he’s treating you is making you depressed! It’s not a healthy situation. Tell your husband that you want to make your marriage a priority and see if he’ll go to counseling with you. Good luck.