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Question:
hi, I like a girl so
much. she is elder to me. for last 1 year we have never spoken together.
Recently I break the silence. I went and speak to her. She spoke to me
normally. She knew my name, even then she was asking to me “is it your name,
right?” . I was speaking little romantically. It was our first speech. Before
that I have never tried to speak to her. Even I have never laughed at her for
one year. She was mentioning that thing when I spoke to her. She then said “ I
have never asked about you to anybody”. After that we started to smile each
other. Before I spoke to her things were like this, she most of the time looks
at me when she pass near to me.
sometimes she tried to smile at me. but I didn’t. lot of time I have
felt she is chasing me. I have seen lot of times she was staring at me. me also
used to look back at her. There were a good eye contact between she and me. I
am a person little quiet, calm and soft spoken. In other hand she is much
talkative and outgoing. She is friendly to all guys. After our first speech
next day she said ‘ hi’ to me. I smiled
at her. Stil she is looking at me when she pass near to me. I have mentioned
that she is not looking to other guys like she looks at me. me also tried to
chase her a lot of times.some times a small smile on her face when she see me. If
she likes me why didn’t she behave like that when I spoke to her first time? My
speech is not attractive, because of that reason she may run away from me? when
I spoke to her, after some she herself stop the talking and said bye, not
extended the speech more than 5 minutes. I love her so much. Now I can ask her
whether she loves me or not? Or can I wait some more time? Give me a reply
please.
Answer:
The "rules" are different in each culture. Here in the U.S. we are much more direct!
You're still in the flirting stage of this budding relationship. Keep flirting, and use this time to get to know each other before you decide if your feelings are genuine or not. Attraction is not the same as love. Take your time. You don't want to scare her off. Be mindful, and polite, women are impressed by gentlemanly behavior. Namaste, Lissa
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