Name: Hopeless to understand

Question:

Hey Lissa!!!  I\\\\\\\'m 15, and was wanting some help. Theres thiese guys I like but don\\\\\\\'t know what to to about them.  The first one we\\\\\\\'ve liked each other since seventh grade and I always told him I wouldn\\\\\\\'t date till high school. This year he asked me to homecoming and I said yes only to wake up  to a text the next morning saying his friend had asked out another gIrl for him and he plans to go with her. Turns Out he begged the girl to go out with him and she only went out with him so he would leave her alone. I was crushed and still kind of am. He never really said sorry and he asked me if I wanted to hangout and he playfully teases me like before. What should I do? Do I move on from him?   The second guy is my best guy friend ever. Everyone thinks that we\\\\\\\'re dating but we\\\\\\\'re not. I want to date him but he tell people that if we were to date it would ruin our friendship. I don\\\\\\\'t know what to do I\\\\\\\'m so confused. Should I forget about them both and stay single. I always put school before a social life being the nerd I am but when it comes to boys I haven\\\\\\\'t have a clue. I hope you can help me!!!! Sincerely,  hopeless to understand

Answer:

Hi!

This is really pretty simple. Guy #1 blew you off - that's ridiculous - so blow him off, too - you can do better, definitely move on.  Guy # 2 is great - you don't need to date him, just keep hanging out with him and see where it goes.  Friendship is the best basis for any relationship.  Relax and don't worry about the whole boy thing - you'll figure it out.  And it's nice to have a guy friend, you can really help each other with all this.

Hugs,

Lissa